Who the fuck will I marry?

OMAIGLOB! This was a fun read. I’ve gotten quite a lot of requests for a Future Spouse PAC, so this is my take on it.

This is a group reading so I will be focusing on who they are instead of the journey of your relationship – that is a whole different energy to pick up on and may be something I’ll look into for future PAC readings.

Some things to take into consideration when reading this PAC: I did not discriminate the information whether this is your one and only spouse or one of the several spouses you will end up in a long-term relationship with. Think about it, realistically, some people go through divorces.

Some of the qualities I’ve picked up on may be perceived to be negative on paper, but do keep an open mind because in real life, sometimes we make decisions that we may not comprehend at this point in time but due to life choices and situations, it may make sense when it is the right time.

For instance – and this is an exaggerated example – you may pick a person with a personality that may be interpreted as having a cold loveless marriage. At this point in time, you may be a hopeless romantic, but you may realize that your priorities have changed and you may choose the comfort of material gains from a marriage over one with a warm bed.

I don’t judge and I have multiple clients, each with their own journeys in life and love with different perspective on what makes them happy. My readings are rooted in realism and in the real world not everyone picks someone to marry who makes their heart flutter. For some, marriage can be for other convenient purposes. Also, you have freewill and you choose to claim the reading or not.

Now, onto the PAC itself. Each group’s

  • Energy expression is divided into male energy and female energy. Simply put – men and women. But to be inclusive, not all persons’ energy may match their biology. Read the portion related to the energy type you’re attracted to in a partner.
  • There are three segments within each group: Personality, motivations for being in a relationship and secret kinks and fetishes that they may not necessarily express publicly.
  • In some group, the qualities expressed are similar for male and female energy so they are combined together.
  • If you feel drawn to more than one group, your future spouse may have a mix of traits from both groups – or it could mean multiple spouses seen in your future.

GROUP 1

The Urban Tarot: Princess of Disks, Prince of Cups (reversed), 2 of Disks (reversed), 5 of Wands

The Romantic Tarot: Chariot (reversed), Judgement, Tower (reversed), Emperor (reversed)

Tarot of Sexual Magic: Justice (reversed), Wheel of Fortune (reversed), Temperance (reversed), King of Swords (reversed)

Archetype Cards: Goddess (reversed), Trickster (reversed)

The Numinous Astro Deck: Pisces (reversed), 7th House (reversed)

Sufi Wisdom Oracle: Celebrate Life

What they’re like…

Male energy:

  • Older than you. The age gap varies, but not too wide a gap like Courtney Stodden and Doug Hutchinson
  • Cautious and measured. Does not like to rush into anything serious. Not because they are reluctant to settle down, but they want to make sure all the bases are covered and you check all the boxes to ensure you’re the right fit. Does not like to be rushed
  • Great with kids and is family-oriented
  • Does not like surprises when it comes to big decisions – do not pull the hole-in-condom trick, sis. DON’T TRY IT, SIS!
  • Stubborn streak – expect a mental block when it comes to seeing and apologizing for their mistakes. But not too severe that it causes relationship imbalances of power
  • Not that big. But knows how to use it. Catch my drift?
  • Does not like to cheat – same expectations will be placed on you. If you do – all bets are off
  • Probably needs help to get in touch with his emotions. Not the most romantic, but is solid and dependable
  • Ambitious and will have a hunger for success, but they approach ambition with strategic planning rather than bold, aggressive gestures to get what they want

Female energy:

  • Older than you. The age gap varies, but not too wide a gap
  • Dreamer, but not open about sharing their inner world until trust is established. Do not force private details out of them
  • Not sexually liberated – tends to gravitate towards relationships than hookups. But by no means a bad lay
  • Does not like to be forced into traditional roles – expect some independence
  • Can come off as aloof – but is just restrained rather can cold. Warm-up takes time but you’ll be surprised at the richness of their love despite slowness in showing affection
  • Likes mental stimulation and challenge – not someone who just caters to their every need. Looking for an equal, not a simp
  • Lives in their head so can be plagued with indecisions at times
  • Ambitious and will have a hunger for success, but they approach ambition with strategic planning rather than bold, aggressive gestures to get what they want

What motivates them…

Male energy:

  • A relationship of equals who bring out the best in each other
  • A stable and secure relationship that always about long-term legacy
  • Someone that can bring out the confidence in sexual expression 
  • Sees a soulmate as a missing half of the puzzle
  • A relationship is seen as a safe space to come home to

Female energy:

  • Living out a happily ever after ideals
  • Someone to explore all intimacy aspects in a relationship and grow to embrace their sexuality and sensuality in a safe space
  • Sees family as a legacy – great importance is placed in raising self-sufficient children

Secret kinks

Male energy:

  • More dominant sexually, and likes living out the alpha male fantasy
  • Likes watching adult materials involving multiple people but will not actually want that in real life. Think voyeur couples at a sex club
  • Likes roleplay where their partner don on different outfits and looks to pretend to be someone else
  • Definitely power play tendencies
  • Enjoys a curvier partner who displays exaggerated feminine qualities – big fat ass, big tits but not implants
  • Dirty talks

Female energy:

  • Loves a softer power play where they are surrendering to their partner. Likes taking direction
  • Body worship – lots of attention to their body parts
  • New scenarios for roleplay to spice things up but never straying beyond monogamy
  • Likes watching their partner being lusted over by other people – but does not like them to cross the line
  • Verbal and loves dirty talks
  • May also be aroused by other female bodies in watching adult materials

GROUP 2

The Urban Tarot: Prince of Disks (reversed), 7 of Swords, Princess of Swords, The Aeon

The Romantic Tarot: 9 of Pentacles, Queen of Pentacles (reversed), Ace of Cups, 3 of Pentacles (reversed)

Tarot of Sexual Magic: Lovers, 8 of Cups (reversed), Tower, 3 of Pentacles

Archetype Cards: Storyteller (reversed), Gambler

The Numinous Astro Deck: The Numinous, Semi-Sextile

Sufi Wisdom Oracle: Deal With The Unexpected

What they’re like…

Male energy:

  • Someone who believes the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. In work, this represents seeing the end justifies the means, and in love, this manifests as someone picking a partner who represents an ideal rather than who the person is.
  • Can be perceived as hard to read. Not deliberately but they can be oblivious to some motivations behind their actions – not for those who always want an explanation for why their partner behaves the way they do or if you are looking to change their behaviors in any way.
  • Is a sucker for mental stimulation so boredom just makes them lose interest
  • There’s a tendency for this person to play mind games even if the intention is not malicious. It could be just to get the upper hand out of the situation.
  • Tends to be reckless with money, so establishing good financial planning when they are in a serious relationship is needed.

Female energy:

  • Looks can be deceiving as they tend to appear restrained and calm but mentally is always thinking of ways to gain an advantageous position be it at work or in personal life.
  • Tends to be wrapped up in ideals and ideas of what a person represents instead of who a person is. May be perceived as a little uncaring.
  • Sees excitement as part of life and gets thrills from spontaneity and a touch of reckless.
  • Very cerebral rather than emotional so can take some warming up to.
  • Someone who likes to live life on their own terms and may not be flexible enough to change their ways so accept them for who they are
  • Not smart in money management despite actually being successful in career.
  • Ambitious and needs someone who can balance their career goals with emotional needs in a relationship

What motivates them…

Male energy:

  • Needs to find a partner who can conform to his idea of love – soulmates, not soulmate. Possibly polyamorous.
  • Independence of self, mind and heart – partners in a literal sense of the word instead of “husband”. Partners who are not jealous or expects them to be on a short leash will dampen their spirit.
  • Someone who does not question the authenticity of their affection and love despite not being monogamous. Because their love is genuine, just not your conventional approach to relationships.
  • Independent equals. They feel safe knowing the other party they choose to be with can stand on their own two feet as a form of mentally reinforcing that their life path is acknowledged by others of similar minds.
  • Feels safe around someone who knows the art of letting go – not clinging on to topics of contentions and bringing it up again. Not very good with confronting issues.
  • Partners who do not see having children as a necessity in a union.

Female energy:

  • Non-traditional relationship arrangement – possibly open relationship.
  • A partner who is strong enough to not question their love and also indulge in their serial love connections with others.
  • “Separate but equal” philosophy that will not threaten their freedom. 
  • Someone who does not question the authenticity of their affection and love despite not being monogamous. Because their love is genuine, just not your conventional approach to relationships.
  • Feels safe around someone who knows the art of letting go – not clinging on to topics of contentions and bringing it up again. Not very good with confronting issues.
  • Someone who understands that a union between people may not necessarily require the presence of children.
  • Relationships that do not require sacrifice on their career for it to work.

Secret kinks

Male energy:

  • Orgies.
  • Cuckquean only in sexual scenarios but a partner who retains their independence without being too subservient in everyday life.
  • Seduction and courtship of new love interests and sharing the details of their conquests with their partner
  • Watching lesbian porn and having their female love partners perform together

Female energy:

  • Hotwife/cuckold fantasy.
  • Loves the hunt for a new sexual partner
  • Seducing married men
  • Creampies and breeding fetishes – but not actually being impregnated.

GROUP 3 

The Urban Tarot: Magician (reversed), Devil, Fool (reversed), Princess of Disks

The Romantic Tarot: King of Pentacles, Wheel of Fortune, Knight of Wands, Death

Tarot of Sexual Magic: 3 of Wands (reversed), Ace of Wands (reversed), Death, Queen of Cups

Archetype Cards: King (reversed), Samaritan (reversed)

The Numinous Astro Deck: Aquarius (reversed), Taurus (reversed)

Sufi Wisdom Oracle: Drunk With Love

What they’re like…

Male energy:

  • Former fuqboi looking for a serious connection now. May slip back into fuqboi territory now and then
  • Sees sex as a very important component in a relationship and someone who can’t match their sexual energy just will not do as a partner.
  • Not a planner and definitely spontaneous approach to life
  • Big Dick Energy and most likely with a size to match
  • Can be a little controlling but needs gentle reminding of this as it is a habit
  • Authentic in their affection for you despite remnants of fuqboi like tendencies
  • Adrenaline junkie
  • Good listener and empathetic, pretty seductive

Female energy:

  • Former thot looking for a serious connection now. May slip back into thot territory now and then.
  • Very sexual and definitely places importance on sex before developing love connections.
  • Not a planner and definitely spontaneous approach to life
  • Life of the party
  • Can be a little controlling but needs gentle reminding of this as it is a habit
  • Authentic in their affection for you despite remnants of thot-like tendencies
  • Adrenaline junkie
  • Good listener and empathetic, pretty seductive

What motivates them…

Male/Female energy:

  • Safe space to develop their affection without being played or judged
  • Drawn to someone with a level head to comfort their insecurities
  • A stable person to share their love journey with
  • Someone who enjoys being with a person to expand their views on the world
  • Looking for that classic family unit of their own

Secret kinks

Male/Female energy:

  • Secret trysts at hidden places in public
  • Intimate, sensuous lovemaking
  • Foreplay in public places
  • Playful experimentation of soft BDSM
  • Orgasm denial
  • Likes replaying their fuqboi/thot role in the bedroom

GROUP 4

The Urban Tarot: 8 of Swords, Devil, 8 of Disks, 7 of Swords

The Romantic Tarot: High Priestess (reversed), King of Cups (reversed), King of Swords, Justice

Tarot of Sexual Magic: Ace of Swords (reversed), Magician, Tower, Knight of Wands (reversed)

Archetype Cards: Engineer (reversed), Angel (reversed)

The Numinous Astro Deck: Mercury (reversed), Scorpio (reversed)

Sufi Wisdom Oracle: Face Your Fears

What they’re like…

Male energy:

  • Not sexually experienced. Some due to personal beliefs, others due to the insecurity of their sexual organ. Probably nothing wrong with their junk, but just not that big and is just too self-conscious
  • Big on enjoying porn. Not necessarily an addict that it’s affecting their capacity to have normal sexual and romantic relations
  • There’s a tendency for this person to err on the pessimistic side of life
  • Needs prodding before opening up about private matters and cautious about trusting people into their life
  • Tends to live in their head a lot and needs reassurance that love is a judgement-free zone

Female energy:

  • Insecurities can manifest as clinginess and need reassurance that things will go well
  • When their mind is at ease – what a wonderful person to be around. Just needs to weed out self-defeating behavior and mindset now and then
  • Initially, not one to be swayed by sweet talks and pulling emotional strings as they have quite a strong guard up
  • A rich inner world that will surprise you with new discovery about themself the longer you know them. Every new day is a surprise but takes time to trust new people in their lives
  • Sexually inexperienced but has very vivid fantasies and fetishes

What motivates them…

Male energy:

  • Sees a marriage as a judgement-free zone for them to be who they are without feeling not good enough
  • Wants a partner to grow and learn together about everything in life
  • Uncertain about children due to fear of making mistakes raising them
  • Needs someone who doesn’t play mind games to make them worry about where they stand in the relationship

Female energy:

  • A sexually and romantically experienced partner to guide them in all aspects of a relationship
  • A stable, solid personality that they can depend on at times when they are caught up in emotional moments that cloud their perception of self
  • Likes new experiences that come from being with someone different from their own background and sees the relationship as an exchange of values to help each other grow – always keen to learn and adapt to new things as long as they are not pressured to do so

Secret kinks

Male energy:

  • Femdom
  • Being pegged
  • surrendering control
  • Ruined orgasm
  • MMF, homoerotic undercurrent

Female energy:

  • Race-play kinks
  • Being dominated
  • Hotwife fantasies

GROUP 5

The Urban Tarot: The Universe, Death, 7 of Wands, 3 of Disks (reversed)

The Romantic Tarot: 5 of Swords, King of Swords, Sun (reversed), Page of Swords

Tarot of Sexual Magic: 8 of Cups (reversed), Queen of Wands (reversed), 9 of Cups (reversed), Knight of Swords

Archetype Cards: Liberator, Trickster (reversed)

The Numinous Astro Deck: 1st House (reversed), Conjunction (reversed)

Sufi Wisdom Oracle: Beyond the Ego

What they’re like…

Male energy:

  • Savior complex if things get out of hand, but generally like to position themselves as champions of the underdogs 
  • Tendency to have selfish motivations for their actions despite doing it for good
  • Generally serious demeanor, but very diplomatic despite not being sincere in things said. Think: politician
  • Giving up in not an option in their life – they never like to admit defeat
  • Issues with being independent and always need the comfort of people or love interest to be happy

Female energy:

  • Likes others to see them as egalitarian, but tends to fall short on following up with their rhetorics. Actions don’t match words and have a tendency to be performative. But that doesn’t mean that it’s all fake. They fight for things that may benefit them in the process or if it may not hinder their gains
  • Knows the power of their mental prowess in persuading others and is not afraid to use it
  • May not necessarily be harmful or hurtful to partner, but can be hypocritical and roll over everybody else for personal gains
  • A proud person who will not tolerate any slight to their public image
  • Can turn on their charm on command, but in private, has a silly and playful persona that is reserved only for their partner of those trusted

What motivates them…

Male energy:

  • A partner who can diplomatically call out on their bullshit without making them feel small or hypocritical
  • Eager to change and learn from someone who will not judge them for what they are lacking
  • A safe space for them to show their true selves – warts and all
  • Finding a partner who understands the value of a well-managed public image and will safeguard it despite going through hiccups in their relationship
  • Neutral views toward children as long as it fits their lifestyle

Female energy:

  • Needs a partner who sees through their bullshit and will not hold it against them
  • A partner whose ego is well controlled and does not seek to subjugate them when trying to correct their mistakes
  • Eager to change and learn from someone who will not judge them for what they are lacking

Secret kinks

Male/Female energy:

  • Not kinks but both energies tend to use sex as a way to fill the emotional void, which can take on multiple forms of sexual expressions. The only thing I can pick up on is swingers energy

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